Dangerous Conversation Training

is a 90-minute experience for group leaders, mentors, and pastoral care teams

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Dangerous conversations are everywhere, and it’s our job to be ready for them.

Part 1:
Preparing for Dangerous Conversations and Jesus’ Vision for His Church

Dangerous conversations are everywhere - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4vRvyDfcIRg&list=PLBcd1URCSGQmOebFR4NZeVm1io_OArdsG&index=2&t=0s

Andy Stanley Talk excerpts - https://youtu.be/MmGBbPrKP0k

how to prepare ourselves for dangerous conversations - https://youtu.be/P0Fdp-91nzY

Part 2:
Dangerous Group Discussions

When your group discussion enters dangerous territory… https://youtu.be/8lU3nVpfm2M

Group Discussion Ground Rules

When we gather as a group, these are some ways we ensure the best group discussion:

  • We make the circle safe by staying honest and transparent - leave the masks at the door.

  • We keep it inside the circle. Each person’s story is theirs alone to share.

  • We look to the Bible for wisdom and truth, and work together to let it shape how we see the world.

  • We don’t try to fix each other in front of each other or give unsolicited advice. We lovingly save hard conversations for private moments.

  • We respect each others’ time by starting and ending when we say we will.

  • We believe that in Jesus Christ, there is hope for everyone.

Part 3:
Tangible Ways to Prepare for Dangerous Conversations

quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=56mXiwHxxDI&list=PLBcd1URCSGQmOebFR4NZeVm1io_OArdsG&index=5&t=0s

carry each other’s burdens - https://youtu.be/YhtzbtuMAEU

Irene brown on empathy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw

Simon Sinek on empathy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pi86Nr9Mdms

Jesus didn’t care about guilt by association - https://youtu.be/JwaiyZjCE6c

where you sit determines where you stand - https://youtu.be/lf6A7GWHIq8

social media is actually interpersonal communication - https://youtu.be/ZNcvXYbYV9k

believe the best about others - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRArfLhgYaw&list=PLBcd1URCSGQmOebFR4NZeVm1io_OArdsG&index=7

seek first to understand others - https://youtu.be/nlstask47f4

bring a healthy, humble self to a dangerous conversation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xK-uDuE5PvU&list=PLBcd1URCSGQmOebFR4NZeVm1io_OArdsG&index=9

this human race, Andy Stanley - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Osxas0kMDk

Part 4:
Invitation to Jesus’ Counter-Culture and 2 Real-Life Challenges

Jesus wasn’t trying to win the culture war - https://youtu.be/mGZC4zbmSLo

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