enabling
abandoning
empowering
The Done with Stuck Roadmap is multi-purpose content that will teach your people how to get to the bottom of any struggle
Put people in the drivers seat of their own life change…
so you don’t have to be!
Most content falls short in one of several ways:
it teaches the habits or practices of a Christian life… but doesn’t address what’s standing in everyone’s way
it preaches the evils of sin or the ways of the world… but doesn’t equip anyone to stop doing the things they hate
it makes people feel better… but doesn’t solve the problems that were causing their pain in the first place
Here’s the real problem:
you can’t be DONE with stuck if you don’t know WHY you’re stuck.
We set out to make something with a different goal. We want to help anyone understand the mechanics of change; starting with identifying the heart issues beneath the problems that present themselves and ending with creating tangible repair plans that they can own and execute.
The Done with Stuck Roadmap will supercharge your people’s spiritual growth by…
shifting the responsibility for growth toward them and away from you
teaching them to prioritize personal application instead of knowledge acquisition
making challenging biblical and neurological concepts accessible and transferrable
The Roadmap isn’t a quick fix or another bible study.
It’s a whole new way to think about change and experience the grace of God.
VIDEO & AUDIO
CONTENT
built on biblical foundations and modern brain science, available on any device
GUIDED
SELF-DISCOVERY
to help you internalize and personalize what you learned - the answers to your issues are inside you, and we’ll help you find them
CONVERSATION
GUIDES
to help you safely share your experience and build trustworthy friendships - and community features for asking questions and sharing insight
ACTION
STEPS
to help you shake up your normal routine and turn your insight into experience
The Roadmap will plug into your church anywhere you want it to.
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INDIVIDUALS & PARTNERS
Offer or recommend The Roadmap to anyone as another way to grow spiritually! It’s built for individuals, but also makes it incredibly easy for any two people to go through as conversation partners - complete with guides, discussion ground rules, and some helpful “friend” training
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MENTORING & PASTORAL CARE
Don’t solve problems for people anymore - empower them to! The Roadmap teaches them the right questions to ask and places you as the guide that is there to clarify, support, and challenge along the way.
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SMALL GROUPS
The Roadmap will supercharge existing small groups and give them new depths of understanding and closeness. But you can also start brand new groups and watch them move quickly to levels of accountability and support that we all dream of.
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STAFF & LEADERS
The Roadmap will equip your staff and leaders to ask better questions and help more effectively - but it is also an opportunity to deepen authentic, vulnerable relationships between each other and keep them healthy. They can get to the bottom of their junk… before it gets them to rock bottom.
You know your context better than anyone - that’s why we made sure it would fit wherever you think it should go.
What’s The Roadmap all about?
The Bible has always said our problems always start in the heart - and modern brain science and recovery principles have helped us see that the Bible was even more right than we knew.
The Roadmap gives you a reusable process for identifying the core heart issues behind any situation or struggle that has you stuck, so you can leave behind all of the failed strategies that have let you down.
And you won’t just find those core issues; you’ll begin repairing the damage that’s been done and moving forward courageously alongside friends who are learning how to encourage and empower you.
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Focus // Understanding God’s intended destination for our lives and acknowledging the missing pieces
Key Point // Shalom looks like a life of rich and meaningful complexity in balance - and it’s only possible through relationships with God and others.
Key Learning // Joy and Attachment are neurological necessities that God wired into us. They are the major missing pieces that we need to rebuild to move toward Shalom.
Path to Move Forward // We must honestly assess the state of our lies and begin to rebuild joy and attachment.
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FOCUS // Understanding our behaviors and what they’re trying to tell us
KEY POINT // Our behaviors are the evidence of what we believe we need.
KEY LEARNING // Dopamine gives us insight into what our behaviors are doing FOR us and how our cravings affect us
PATH TO MOVE FORWARD // We must take ownership over our behaviors and honestly investigate them.
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FOCUS // Understanding how our emotions influence our behaviors
KEY POINT // Positive and negative emotions are a gift from God, and they’re usually sending us important messages about what is helping or hurting us.
KEY LEARNING // Emotional Memory systems in the brain attach dangerous memories to relevant negative emotions and unconsciously protect us from them.
PATH TO MOVE FORWARD // We must learn to name and feel our big emotions so we can dig for the dangerous memories attached to them.
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FOCUS // Life has taught us what to believe about ourselves, others, God, and the world
KEY POINT // Words and wounds can corrupt our beliefs, causing an unhealthy relationship with negative emotions and resulting in destructive behaviors.
KEY LEARNING // Beliefs are the foundational, neurological mental maps that we use to approach and perceive the world.
PATH TO MOVE FORWARD // We must identify and challenge our corrupted beliefs so that we can adopt the beliefs that Jesus himself lied with.
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FOCUS // Understanding how to repair the origins of our corrupted beliefs
KEY POINT // The past continues to control us, whether we realize it or not, until we intentionally break its hold.
KEY LEARNING // Grieving, forgiving, and repenting are three ways we can begin repairing the origins of our corrupted beliefs and breaking the hold of the past.
PATH TO MOVE FORWARD // We must confront our dangerous memories and painful pasts and ask God to meet us there with new experiences full of grace and love.
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FOCUS // Understanding how to move forward with ongoing repair work in mind
KEY POINT // After dealing with our past, we need a new plan to deal with our beliefs, emotions, and behaviors as we go.
KEY LEARNING // Our brains continually need new evidence that reinforces true beliefs and combats corruptions.
PATH TO MOVE FORWARD // We must practice courageous vulnerability, disarm our alarms, and metabolize our emotions as we go.
Here’s a big-picture overview of The Roadmap:
👀 Want a sneak peek?
Check out a video from the first stop on the Roadmap: DESTINATION
Meet Your Roadmap Guides
Tommy was a pastor for 8 years at Mission Church in Ventura CA, trained relapse prevention coach, and lover of all things sci-fi. He’s a life-long learner who obsesses over making hope more practical and tangible for people who need it.
Lauren is a pastor's kid turned kids pastor, Enneagram 9w8 "aggressive peacemaker," and constant home RE-decorator. She’s a wise empath with passion for the lost, broken, and left behind.
“During our time in ministry with some of the best Christian leaders in the country, we experienced something surprising. Somehow, just learning about Jesus and forming some new relationships that focused on him fell short of helping people transform.
We realized that we were missing the practical TOOLS to help people (and ourselves) break free of destructive life patterns and experience the freedom that we were all trying to find in Jesus.
We hit our own season of burnout and got some of the best help we could have asked for. It was the first time we began to see just how much we had left to learn and how much we had to unlearn personally.
We started sharing all the new resources and tools we had found… and knew we had to find MORE ASAP. We found our way to recovery experts and leading neuroscience research. And all along the way, we saw that SO much of what is working in the world is like a modern day translation of what Jesus taught and lived.
The Done with Stuck Roadmap is the tool we were searching everywhere for as pastors, and now are so thrilled to bring to you.
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The Roadmap (and more!) is accessible on any device
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